A Relational Witch’s Brew — The Bubble, Bubble, Toil, & Trouble of Resentment

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A prompt from one of my writing workshops asked students to discuss the following, “Where is anger found in relationships and what causes it?”

My thoughts…

There is a wave of anger bubbling just beneath the surface. It is there when someone feels taken for granted. Patience and empathy are a strong suit for some, so those people let it ride until the day comes when they really need to be heard. But, the support is not there.

So the witch’s brew of anger and resentment starts bubbling, just a little…

Resolution is found for others because listening is easy and having the ability to help friends, loved ones, and co-workers put the puzzle of competing feelings and facts together to build a concrete plan comes naturally.

But, when reciprocal support is required due to many circumstances it’s not available when it is needed the most.

So, the bubbling of resentment and anger intensifies…

The answer to a lack of support is they may simply not realize you need help.

The kettle of anger and resentment begins to boil...